Help Me. J.D. passed on - it's been 8 days

I don't have anyone to talk to. I just found him. I'm in shock. I don't know what to do.

Earlier Today

 

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(((((Dyana)))))

Call your vet. We're all here for you.

 

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oh dyana. I am so sorry.

Whenever I read your posts I was amazed by the care and love you showed him. You truly had a great bond and I can't believe he has passed on. You couldn't have done more for him and he died at home knowing that he was truly loved.

 

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They're closed, Sienne.

 

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Oh Dyana! HUGS and HUGS and HUGS and more....oh crap...and more HUGS...and prayers for comfort. Agree with Sienne, call your vet.

MORE HUGS,

 

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Oh, Dyana :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: ...I am so incredibly, very sorry. I know J.D. was your world, and you were his, and the two of you showed us the truest meaning of love and dedication. J.D. is a LL legend, and his light will always shine down. I am sending you endless hugs and prayers.....our hearts are breaking with yours.

 

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Did he have a favourite blanket that you could wrap him up him?

 

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(((Dyana)))

I'm so very sorry, words just don't express how sorry. You took such great care of him, we all knew how much you meant to each other. Piling on vines of peace and comfort. :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: I will light a candle for JD tonight.

JD, watch over your momma, and give her a sign when you can. Fly free, have fun with all the kitties that went on before you. o o o

I'm so sorry Dyana, hugs
Kathie

 

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I have him laying on his favorite down pillow. I am so sad.

 

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Oh, Dyana. I have tears falling onto my keyboard. For you. For J.D.

Such devotion to your boy. Such devotion from him to you. I just don't have the words to share my shock, my hearthurt and how much I wish I could just give you such a huge, big, I-understand hug.

He will always be a part of LL. He will always be a part of you. And he's taking one big, chunk of your heart with him on his journey. And that hurts so much.

Light for healing for you Dyana. And tears, just tears.

Safe journey Mr. J.D., a grand gentleman cat.

Marilyn and Polly

 

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(((((Dyana & Ginger))))) I am so sorry for your loss. J.D. was one of the first condos I ever saw on FDMB, and his story of how you found him and brought him across the country from California was then and still is truly amazing to me! You certainly have been an exemplary caregiver, I am sure JD appreciated and reveled in all of your love and attention. You and Ginger will be in my thoughts and prayers! :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

 

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I am SO sorry. The love you had for him was apparent in every condo.

 

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Dyana,

We are so sorry for your loss. Know that you gave J.D. A wonderful life and 20 years is proof of that. We will also light a candle for J.D. He will forever live in your heart.


Hugs and Headbutts,
Matt, Ava, JuJu and KiKi

 

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(((((Dyana))))) What a terrible shock for you. I am so sorry for your sudden loss.

 

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Oh Dyana...I just saw the title and thought no way, not J.D.! I can not stop the tears. My heart is so broken for you and that sweet boy. I know you are in shock right now and nothing is making any sense or making this pain and hurt any easier.
I wish I could be there with you , but we are all here @LL for you. You are not alone! I will PM you my cell if you need to talk call me anytime. Just typing this seems like not doing enough. I so wish I could make this go away for you. You really were an AMAZING Mama to J. D. !
Hugs hugs and more hugs.....

 

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omg. ((((((((((dyana))))))))))
i'm so sorry. what a shock.
when you're ready, how about calling a friend to come over? does your vet have an answering service? you could ask them to have your vet call you. if not, maybe call the ER you've taken JD to before?

i'm so sad for you...

 

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(((((dyana)))))

i'm so terribly sorry. sending you a ton of love. :cry:

you can call me if you want to talk.

big hugs, julie

 

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I am so sorry for your loss Dyana I am relative newbie in LL and even I know J.D. was a very lucky guy. You took amazing care of him. Our furry family members don't get to 20 by accident. Especially with FD. You are in my thoughts and prayers. You came to the right place after such a shock. Hang in there

 

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(((((Dyana))))) I am so, so sorry. :cry: :cry: I know it is a shock for you. Big hugs. You are not alone, all of LantusLand is with you. You can call us too. I'll send a PM with the number.
Liz and Anne

 

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Dyana, I'm so sorry. Sending more prayers and hugs. :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

 

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Oh, Dyana....what a shock! I suppose JD didn't want to have you make the decision and took it out of your hands. I am so very sorry..I wish I could be there with you. This is not something you want to have to deal with by yourself. I am there in spirit.
Fly free JD.

 

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I am in tears right now......

The love and devotion that you gave J.D. was amazing and a true inspiration to all of us. While we can't be there in person, I hope that you can feel the love of your entire LL family. We all love you and are heart broken at the loss of sweet, sweet J.D.


Fly free sweet boy and look for all those from LL who have gone ahead, they are awaiting you at the Rainbow Bridge. You will be truly missed by your momma and all your aunties of LL. Please don't forget to look in on your momma and let her know you arrived safely.

I so wish there was something more I could do for you. All my thoughts, love, hugs and prayers are going out to you right now.

 

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Oh no. ((((((Dyana)))))). It doesn't seem real. I am so, so sorry. My heart is aching for you, with you.
Sending you so much love.
Please know that you have tons of support here.
:YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

 

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Oh Dyana. What a total shock. I hope you can get a hold of your vet. Please know that we are all here for you. ((((Hugs)))). JD was a very lucky kitty.

 

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I((((Dyanna)))) I'm speechless as the tears are running down my cheeks. Your love and devotion I'm sure carried him to the other side. He gave you a final gift by going peacefully in his sleep. Call a friend to be with you when you are ready. Lean on someone else for a change. Prayers and hugs to you.

 

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((((((Dyana))))))

I'm so, so sorry to read this. Is there someone who can be with you? Your neighbor? What a shock this must be. I can't imagine.

Please take care of yourself.

 

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(((Dyana))) I am so sorry to hear this terrible news. I hope you have someone you can call to be with you. Know your LL family is here. What a shock for you, I can imagine you are devastated. JD made it easier for you and knew it was his time. There will be so many kitties waiting at the bridge for him. Big hugs and prayers for you.

 

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I am so sorry Dyana. There are no words. Many hugs to you. Let him begin his journey on his favorite pillow, favorite blanket, surrounded by all he knows and loves. His journey will be a peaceful one then. We are all here for you until, and after, you can reach your vet.

Fly free J.D. we will all miss you. Always remembered, never forgotten.

 

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I am so, so sorry Dyana. That feeling is one that I will never forget. Sending you hugs and warm thoughts as you process your grief. JD knew a life of so much love because of you. Know that everyone here is keeping you close.

 

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Oh my goah, Dyana. I am so so sorry. You took such great care of J.D. Your love for him was so apparent!

Fly free sweet J.D. Watch over your mama. She's having a rough time. Send her lots of signs that you are still with her!

 

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(((Dyana))) I know we aren't THERE but we are all HERE and we will all do anything we can for you. Mike and I are so very sorry. Our deepest condolences.

 

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I am so sorry for your loss.

This happened to me once. I went out for a few hours and when I got home, I found my 5-year old cat. He had had a heart attack. It is such a shock to lose them so suddenly.

 

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Oh (((Dyana))), I wish I could reach across the state line and hug you in person. I can't stop crying. I am so so sorry for your pain. J.D. was loved by so many of us. He was truly a legend, here in LL.
Great big hugs to you, and scritches to Ginger.
Barb

 

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Oh, Dyana, I am so terribly sorry to hear you lost your beloved J.D. My heart aches for you.

donaleen

 

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Oh Dyana...

 

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Dear ((((Dyana)))),

J.D.loved you so much that he wanted to spare you a long farewell. He knew that it was his time to begin a new journey. Please lean on your LL family in this time of grief. We all grieve with you. Your boy, who you rescued as a tiny kitten and who shared his long life with you with such grace and dignity, will always be with you. His star is shining brightly in the heavens tonight. He is soaring high on his beautiful new golden wings. His many dear old friends are welcoming him to the Bridge.

Fly free, J.D. And send your mamabean a sign that you have arrived safely. wings_cat You are much loved.

In deepest sympathy and with love,

Ella & Edward, Rusty, and Stu (GA)

We are lighting Stu's candle tonight in memory of your boy. Hug Ginger and remember all the good times.

 

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Oh so sorry Dyana... There are so many of ours who are waiting for him at the Bridge to show him where to run and chase butterflies. Gosh... he had 20 long years of your love. That's amazing. I know your heart is breaking. I am crying with you. I just love his birthday video!

Please know that I am praying for peace and comfort to come to you through your memories of him - especially of him in his Christmas outfit.

Sending hugs and headbutts...

 

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Im so sorry you lost your beloved J.D. I cant imagine what you are feeling. He is at peace now and you will have many wonderful memories to cherish. You did all you could..it was his time to cross over the bridge. Take time to grieve and I wish you peace during this difficult time.

 

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((((Dyana)))) There are some kitties we think will be around forever...because they seem to have always been here. J.D. was one of those. You were one of the best mama's ever. J.D. couldn't have asked for one better. He lived such a full life with so much love. I'm so sorry, not only that he had to go, but that you had to find him by surprise. Know we're all grieving with you.

 

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Oh Dyana,
I had to read least three time the heading of your post till my brain was able to process it.
I always enjoyed to read your posts and I was amazed by your dedication, care and most of all your unconditional love to him. The bond between two of you un – describable. I just can’t stop crying, I wish I know you in person and able to stay with you, I know a little how you feel,
(I lost a brother and sister, a month a part like this last year, they were three years old. They had a breakfast, were happy playful and found them in their bed “sleeping’ 4 hours later. )
Million Hugs for you.

 

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((((((((((Dana)))))) We have never meant on here, but we all have the same thing in common and that is the love for our furbabies!! and it sure seems to me that J.D.was one lucky baby, you took such great care of him that he lived a long and happy life! thanks to you!! My heart goes out to that you will find comfort in knowing how much J.D. loved you and will be waiting for you at the end of the rainbow when you two will once again be reunited. !! God Bless and I will say a prayer for you both.

Vickie&China

 

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I am so very, very sorry. My heart goes out to you.

 

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((((((Dyana))))))

Oh I'm so sorry.
That is a shock.
Sending love.... You are surrounded by all of your LL family.

We all loved J.D. and he will always feel your love. Even over the bridge.....

 

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Oh, no. I'm so sorry Dyana. He was such a sweet and handsome kitty who loved you so much. He had a beautiful start in life when you found him the hills of California. What a lucky boy he was to have lived his life with you. (((Dyana)))

You asked for help... I hope you won't think I'm being heartless but when something similar happened to me, this is what I did (because the vet was closed.)

I placed my Kayte on a pillow just like you did for J.D. Then I gently brushed her lovely fur and arranged her in a comfortable way so she seemed peaceful and asleep. I also cut a bit of her long fur to save and keep close to me. After I hugged her and rested my head on her sweet face, I wrapped her in a pretty towel and kept her cool on our screen porch. I stayed with her for hours, coming in only to warm up when needed. The next day it was time to take her to my vet. But I was glad I had that night to grieve and hold her as long as I wanted.

Perhaps you can do something similar. Crying and letting the tears fall on J.D. is ok. He will carry those tears of love with him forever.

My heart is with you tonight, Sweet Dyana. ♥

 

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(((Dyana))) Oh no, I am so saddened to hear this sad news! A good friend just told me about J.D. J.D. is one beloved kitty that just seemed to rally every time we thought it was his time. My heart and prayers are with you tonight.

 

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(((Dyana))) many, many hugs going out to you. :YMHUG: What a shock. My deepest condolences. Please lean on us. You've been there for so many of us.

I'll be looking to the sky tonight. There's a meteor shower, but I think it's JD making his way to the bridge.

 

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(((((Dyana))))))

I have no words. I am so sorry for your loss of J.D. I understand that shock you faced today.
Lean on your LL friends We all are here to comfort you.

Fly free sweet J.D. and land softly. Many of your friends are waiting for you.

Man many hugs Dyana.

 

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(((Dyana)))

I am at a complete loss for words, so I will simply say that I am truly sorry for your loss. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Shelly

 

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So sorry about JD. I read your posts every morning because he was such an amazing kitty. Think of the good times.Take care of
your self. Peg and Toby

 

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Dyana,
I am so sorry. I am crying, JD a beautiful kitty who had the best of care for 20yrs. He was and is so loved.
Even though, I haven't been in LL very long, I have looked forward to Jd's condos. I will miss him very much, he looks very much like Michael. The bond between you & JD was extraordinary.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
JD is playing on the rainbow bridge and I know he will send you a sign that he is o.k
LL will deeply miss JD. May he rest in peace.
My deepest Sympathy,
Paula

 

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Dyana,
I am so sorry. I am crying, JD a beautiful kitty who had the best of care for 20yrs. He was and is so loved.
Even though, I haven't been in LL very long, I have looked forward to Jd's condos. I will miss him very much, he looks very much like Michael. The bond between you & JD was extraordinary.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
JD is playing on the rainbow bridge and I know he will send you a sign that he is o.k
LL will deeply miss JD. May he rest in peace.
My deepest Sympathy,
Paula

 

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Oh Dyana.. I am so sorry for your loss.. ((Hugs))

 

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I'm so sorry Dyana. Spread you beautiful new wings JD.

 

(((Dyana)))

Tears for your loss, cyber hugs for your grief. I'm so sorry, Dyana, I'm very glad I got to meet your big guy.
He was very special and will be missed by us all. Fly free. J. D.

 

(((Dyana)))

Tears for your loss, cyber hugs for your grief. I'm so sorry, Dyana, I'm very glad I got to meet your big guy.
He was very special and will be missed by us all. Fly free. J. D.

 

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(((((Dyana)))))

I am so, so sorry for your loss. I am crying too. Your devotion to J.D. has always inspired me so much. I hope you find peace in knowing that you gave him all the love and compassion in the world. He had the best mama a kitty could ask for. I can't imagine how you must feel, and I wish I could be there in person to offer some help. You are in my thoughts, and I am sending lots of love and comfort your way.

 

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Dear Dyana,
I can't make it hurt less, though I would give anything to be able to do so.

In my years on the board, I have never seen a kitty or a caregiver fight so hard and fight so well, for just one more day together.

I saw your condo from this morning before seeing this. With all of my heart, I hope that you can hold on to this memory as you try to deal with your overwhelming loss...

May you always remember your dear boy as bright and beautiful.

Hugs my friend,

Carl

 

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My friend Dyana I am so so sorry to read this!!
I know how bad you feel. You and JD have been an
Inspiration to all of us on FDMB and your devotion to him
Was incredible. You had him for 20 loving years and he was
Loved every day of those years by you!
You did absolutely everything possible to keep him
Going all these years so please have no regrets!
Our babies are so special having so many special needs.
And we stay committed to them gladly for their Love.

But one day, that wretched day comes when their little
Bodies can't take anymore and they choose to leave us!
It's the day they decide to let go and be free.
It hurts so much our hearts are so broken
But they find the peace they so need. We all love you & feel your pain!!
Love you Dyana. Love you JD. Fly Free And Land Softly. From Roni & Moonie(GA)

 

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((((Dyana))))
I am so sorry for your loss. You and J.D. have been part of LL for a long time and please know that we are here for you and with you in your pain and grief. You and J.D. had a special bond and it will never be broken and I know that J.D. will always be in your heart. Hugs and prayers to you.

 

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Oh Dyana I am so sorry about your J.D. I was always amazed and impressed with the way you cared for J.D. You should not have any regrets.

It's never easy ---Sending prayers of comfort and peace to you. He lived a long life from your wonderful care.

 

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Holding you and J.D. in my heart, Dyana. What fine friends you have been! This is so sad.

Georgette and Clare

 

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(((Dyana))) Shedding tears with you. You are in my prayers.

 

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I am so very sorry for your loss and your hurting heart. What a beautiful long life he had filled with your love and care....how lucky you were to have each other! I know you will miss him so. Fly free sweet JD wings_cat

Thinking of you Dyana and sending hugs at this difficult time.

Betty

 

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Dyana, I am so sorry that your sweet JD has crossed the Bridge. My heart aches for you. :cry: Sending you many prayers of strength and comfort.

Fly free, sweet JD. You taught so many of us how to live a long, happy life. Doesn't hurt that you have the bestest mamabean. You know she'll miss you so much. Please remember to keep an eye on her and send her little reminders that you're watching out for her. She'll need those moments. Bless you, sweet boy. You have earned your angel wings.

 

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When my Donny passed, I kept him with me for several days before driving him to the crematorium. Butthead was taken away immediately after, and it didn't feel right. It bothered me for a long time. I say take as long as you need to spend time with J.D., pet him, talk to him. It helped me tremendously, though needless to say, it still hurt like hell to leave him behind :cry:

tears, prayers, hugs...

MJ

 

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I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your beautiful, beloved boy. What a terrible and heartbreaking shock for you. Many prayers that you will somehow be comforted by knowing you were the most incredible mom possible to J.D. and that he knew the warmth of your love every day of his life.

Molly

 

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I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your beautiful, beloved boy. What a terrible and heartbreaking shock for you. Many prayers that you will somehow be comforted by knowing you were the most incredible mom possible to J.D. and that he knew the warmth of your love every day of his life.

Molly

 

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(((Dyana)))

So sorry to hear of JD's passing. You've been so dedicated to him for 20 years!

All of LL is stunned along with you and wishes they could help take even a tiny bit of the pain you're feeling away.

Fly free sweet JD and land softly...Send your mama a sign that you've safely arrived and are watching her from beyond the veil wings_cat

 

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((((Dyana)))) What a terrible shock, I'm so sorry :cry: . I hope that you feel all the love, prayers, and hugs that all of LL, and I, am sending to you :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: . I hope that you found someone to talk to or be with you tonight. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

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((( Dyana ))) I'm so saddened by this shocking news. J.D. was such a lucky boy to have had you care for him so lovingly for his time on this earth. You shared such a special bond - my heart aches for you as you process and deal with this terrible, unexpected loss. I hope you can take some comfort in knowing that he knows how much you love him. Sending hugs of comfort to you.

Fly free and land softly sweet J.D.

 

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So sorry to hear this! The care you gave JD is inspiring and I'm sure he knew exactly how loved he was. (((Dyana)))

 

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(((((Dyana)))))

I just read this on facebook and had to come over and tell you how deeply sorry I am that you've lost your sweet boy. You were an awesome mom to him! I am so sad for you and wish there was something I could say to ease your heartbreak.

Prayers and hugs -

Libby (& Hershey, too!)

 

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Oh Dyana! We are so sorry! J.D. was such a legend here on LL. Your travels and total dedication to his care. WE will light a candle to light your stately gentleman to the Bridge

Fly free, J.D. This time with your own wings. wings_cat

 

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Oh heavens...

(((Dyana))) I'm so very sorry. You have a PM.

Fly free, J.D.
Safe journey, friend.

Jane

 

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oh Dyana.
deb called me last night to tell me...... I did not post then cause I could think of no comforting words. I thought surly something will come to me in my dreams.
nope, I can find no words to comfort or take away or ease your pain.

You were the absolute best momma to JD. the love you and he had for each other was truly amazing. there is nothing you did not do for your boy.

seems as though he returned that gift of love by waiting til you were gone. that is how strong that bond of love was. he did not want to see you hurting.

take all the time you need to be with him

hugs my friend. holding you tight.
fly free JD.. you are loved by many and your loss will be felt across the world

 

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{{{Dyana}}}

I've been away from the computer most of the day and evening, and I when I checked my email I saw a post from Chris about J.D. I'm still in shock. We all thought he would be here forever - your care of him was so complete and selfless. I can't imagine the pain you are going through. I wish there was more we can do for you, but know you are in our prayers and we are all shedding tears tonight for your sweet boy. I hope there is someone there with you and Ginger, who must be so confused. :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

I will always carry the picture in my head and heart of your handsome boy, in his harness, going for a walk. What a special relationship you had.



Fly free, J.D., and land softly.

 

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I guess that's right, Dian. I haven't cried so many tears in forever, since my soul mate horse passed 20 years ago.
Ginger and I took a walk outside a little while ago. She is acting indifferent. I wish she would be more loving and affectionate at this time, but she is not.

I keep petting him, because his fur is so soft. I wish I didn't have to stop petting him

 

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Dear Dyana,All the words I can thinks of seem so very inadequate,I am so sorry for the loss of your darling boy J .D
You are the most amazingly dedicated Mum, be strong,you are in our thoughts and prayers. Diane & Bailey UK

 

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Dear Dyana I am so so sorry that you lost J.D. Wish I could be with you to comfort you. You and J.D. had a bond like no other and you did everything for him. Remember you gave him a wonderful life from the time he found you as a tiny kitten. My heart is hurting with yours. Hugs (((Dyana)))

Fly Free Sweetest J.D. You are loved very much.

 

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Thank you for your support and prayers.

The vet is still not open yet. I called the ER vet and they gave me the phone number and location of the pet cremation place. Where and how do I get the paw print, the one that is pushed into a soft surface and then hardens?

 

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I believe I have seen those at Michaels and Joann Fabrics.

 

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We have a Michael's here. So, I just go do it myself, I guess :-|

 

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Our pet crematorian does the paw prints for the owner. You might call them and see. ((((HUGS))))

 

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Dyana,

I am so sorry and shocked to be reading this. You took such good care of J.D. and did everything thing in your power to make him comfortable. Again I am so sorry.


Terri

 

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Dear Dyana,

We are all with you as you begin this very difficult day. Sending you vines of comfort and strength. Ginger will be OK. She just needs to grieve in her own way, as do we all.

:YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: s and love from,

Ella & Rusty

 

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Dyana, the crematory often offers a variety of remembrance services. Cast paw prints, ink paw prints, etc. My guys were all returned in beautiful urns with plaques, a framed ink paw print, and a lock of fur. Call around and see what is offered and choose what you want. (I also sent something with each of my guys. With Spike, a piece of pizza. With Annie, her favorite sprarkle ball. Bud took his favorite stuffy on his journey. I sent tufts of Polly fur with Charley as he loved her so.)

My heart goes out to you. And Ginger.

Marilyn and Polly

 

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Bed Bath & Beyond has a Paw Print Ornament They are open now. I will try to do it myself.

 

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Dyana,

The vet did it for me when Andy passed away, it depends on the vet you take them to. I had him cremated and they did his pawprint and gave me a clipping of his hair. Oh I am so sorry.

Terri

 

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(((hugs))) I am so sorry for your loss .. I wish I could do more for you .. When we lost our cheddar suddenly peter took him to the ER vet and they were able to do a paw print there for us .. Fly Free J.D. ..

 

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((((((hugs)))))) I am so sorry for your loss :YMHUG:

Fly Free JD rb_icon rb_icon

 

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The crematorium I used didn't do any of that :sad: ... though they did save fur and whiskers if I asked.

You can get clay from Michael's or A.C. Moore - it's the same stuff as in the kit - Fimo clay. Knead the bejeebus out of it and make a pancake the size you want. I used two flat plates to sandwich it and make a smooth surface, and it also helps to have a hard surface behind it when you are making the impression. If you're like me, you'll have to make several to get a good one. I did one for each of Donny's four paws.

MJ

 

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(((((Dyana)))))
I am so very sorry that this awful day has come to you and your boy. There is comfort that he went on his own terms, in his own time although you might not feel that way right now. You always did everything to help him through all these years and he loved you as much as you loved him.
There are 20 years of memories that you do have in your heart to comfort you in the days and weeks to come....we always would wish for more, but 20 years is such a blessing!! You two have been so very close for all that time.
I know that J.D. is having a big reunion with all his forum friends who were there to greet him....they always loved having parties with each other and they are all rejoicing to be together again.....

Please give Ginger a hug from me....Raja was that way when Shadow passed....just accepting of life and death in such a wise and elegant way. Meanwhile, we Beans are feeling such terrible pain.

I am crying along with you, Dyana...my heart is breaking for you.....

 

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Thank you. J.D.'s regular vet just called to say how sorry she was. She said I could bring the kit to them and the girls in the back room will do it for me.
I begged a neighbor to come with me to the cremation. She's a cat lover and usually babysits Ginger when J.D. and I went to California. She has a cold and doesn't want to give it to me, so I hope I can ward that off with positive thoughts.

 

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IF you have the putty, you can also make a nose print....
you can then reverse cast , and have an ornament made with his nose.... or jewelry.....

 

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Oh no!
(((((Dyana))))) I am so sorry.
You and J.D. loved each other so much.
My thoughts are with you. I'll be thinking of you and J.D. all day like so many others here, and you are not alone.
Your Ginger is like my Ginger, but she loves you too.
:YMHUG:

Fly free, J.D.
You will be missed.

 

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Thank you, Mariko.

 

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I'm at a loss for words. I'm so sorry J.D. had to go. Listen for him at the next full moon. I hope he sends you a sign he has found his way soon. I'm so, so sorry Dyana. wings_cat

 

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I keep quietly hearing him purring when I pet him.

Anyway, I'm off. God this is so hard. Give me strength.

 

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Vines of strength and comfort. :YMHUG:

 

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More prayers and hugs....