02/24/2012 Spitzer has crossed the Rainbow Bridge

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  1. BJM

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    At around 9:30-10:30 pm, Spitzer began howling intermittently, panting, and was very restless. He had difficulty standing and walking; his back legs were splayed and sometimes knuckled under. I called the primary vet and met her at the office. She drew blood from his back left leg and his glucose was 289, so not a hypo. His temp was 99, so not a fever. His incision site was bruised looking. Both back legs felt cool. She agreed with me that it was likely he had thrown a blood clot and referred me to MedVet for additional care.

    At MedVet, they could not get a blood pressure in his back legs. He was in significant pain and very aggitated. The vet indicated that intensive treatment would likely run $2,00-$4,000 ... and that he only had a 50/50 chance of surviving another 10 months before having another blood clot somewhere. She said that reperfusion of the areas with blocked blood supply was pretty painful if successful and that tissue damage with necrosis and infection was very likely.

    At 12:50 am, I held Spitzer in my lap while he crossed the Rainbow Bridge. Requiem aeternum, little one. May we meet each other again some day. I love you always, my schnuzzle butt.
     

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  2. Lisa and Merlyn (GA)

    Lisa and Merlyn (GA) Well-Known Member

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    ((((((((((((((((((((((((BJM)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    Sending many many cyber hugs. I am so very sorry for your loss. Tears falling.
    Spitzer is flying free now, whole and healthy over the Rainbow Bridge. rb_icon
    wings_cat
     
  3. JL and Chip

    JL and Chip Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry. What a painful and traumatic evening it must have been for both of you. My thoughts are with you. Fly free, Spitzer...
     
  4. Melissa and Bailey

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    BJ I am so sorry :cry: Fly free, sweet Spitzer. wings_cat
     
  5. Skylin

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    :cry: :cry: :cry:
    I read your other posts the other day... they reminded me of my other kittie that passed years ago. So sorry sweetie.
     
  6. akbahsMum

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    Sorry to see you go Spitzer. ((((((((((BJM)))))))) :cry:
    So very sad to hear this news. But you did the right thing not to put him through misery for little gain. His troubles are over now.
     
  7. Grayson & Lu

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    So sorry to hear this. Spitzer, I'm sure, is grateful that you made that difficult decision, and that you stayed by his side through all of this. I'll so miss seeing his updates. Rest healthfully little love, and come back regularly in memories to comfort your mama. God Bless!
     
  8. Marcy & Klinger (GA)

    Marcy & Klinger (GA) Well-Known Member

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    Oh no ((((BJ)))) I am so so sorry.
    Fly free dear Spitzer
    My deepest sympathies.

    Marcy & Klinger
     
  9. Harley and Pattie

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    Oh (((BJ))), I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Pattie
     
  10. ((((BJ))))
    My heart is breaking for you. Fly free sweet boy.
    Carl
     
  11. kse

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    I am so sorry to read this. I have been one of the silent observers that has followed Spitzer and You. I have always admired your dedication and love for Spitzer--- you provided him wonderful care.

    Fly Free Spitzer.

    Kim and Kitty
     
  12. terri1962

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    BJ

    I am crying so hard I can barely type. You have been around for me since Lilly was diagnosed back in the summer of last year. I am so sorry for the loss of Spitzer. He truly was a fighter and had been through so much. Oh BJ I am so sorry.

    Terri
     
  13. Larry and Kitties

    Larry and Kitties Well-Known Member

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    Sending purrs and prayers for both of you.
     
  14. Sienne and Gabby (GA)

    Sienne and Gabby (GA) Senior Member Moderator

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. You have been incredibly devoted to Spitzer and provided him with a final act of kindness and love.

    Fly free Spitzer.
     
  15. Jennifer & Saima (GA)

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    I am so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. Spitzer is free of pain now, but I know how much you must be hurting. Peace be with you in the coming days.
     
  16. Ann & Scatcats

    Ann & Scatcats Well-Known Member

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    Oh dear. Dear Spitzer. This really saddens me and I am so so sorry you two had to go through this.

    Walk with angels, Spitzer.
     
  17. Vyktors Mum

    Vyktors Mum Well-Known Member

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    I am so very sorry to hear this. You looked after Spitzer so well and it seemed like he was getting better. It must have been such a hard decision for you to give him this final gift of love. You looked after him until the very end and I feel sure he will repay you by watching over you. I know he will be in your heart for ever.
     
  18. Jenn & Baxter

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    I have followed Spitzers stories from the beginning. I just can't believe what I am reading. I am so sad right now. What a tramatic evening. I am truly sorry!

    Spitzer fly free & high.
    wings_cat

    You are in my thoughts,
    Jenn & Baxter
     
  19. Sue and Oliver (GA)

    Sue and Oliver (GA) Well-Known Member

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    Oh, BJ, I am so sorry to hear this. No one could have done more for a kitty than you did for Spitzer. You tried so many different things, adapting to each new wrinkle he threw you.

    I am so glad he left this world in your arms. He knew how much you cared and tried and loved him.
     
  20. Vicky & Gandalf (GA) & Murrlin

    Vicky & Gandalf (GA) & Murrlin Well-Known Member

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    Oh no! ((((((BJ)))))) I am so sorry you had to make such a wrenching decision. My heart breaks for you having to deal with such a sudden event, but you did the best thing for Spitzer. We understand and share your sorrow.

    Fly free, Spitzer. wings_cat
     
  21. Maggies Mom Debby

    Maggies Mom Debby Well-Known Member

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    Oh no! I'm so very sorry BJM.
     
  22. Karrie and Maverick

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    I'm tearing up reading this. My heart is broken for you. Being so sudden has rocked your world. Maverick most likely passed from a heart attack or passing a clot. In an instant he was gone. I have comfort in my belief that Maverick was meant to be mine and that he is with me in spirit always. I think BJ was meant to be yours. He takes all the love you showered on him with him. I wish I could lessen the pain you feel and I wish I could give you a real hug. I will light a candle for BJ. Sending hugs and love.
     
  23. Holly and Josie

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    I am so very sorry to hear of your loss of your Spitzer. You are in my thoughts & prayers!
     
  24. PeterDevonMocha

    PeterDevonMocha Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry to hear about Spitzer ... I hope you find peace in knowing he is waiting for you at the rainbow bridge .. Fly Free Spitzer ..
     
  25. tuckers mom

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    I am very sorry for your loss. In the end you freed him only to take on that pain yourself. There is no greater gift.
     
  26. hmjohnston

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    I am sorry to hear about Spitzer. You gave him the best care.
     
  27. Squeaky and KT (GA)

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    My heart is broken today...oh sweet Baby - I look forward to actually being able to hug you someday.

    Hugs BJ, I can't say any more right now...
     
  28. Iorwen & Tray

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    I am so so sorry to hear of Spitzer's passing. Huge hugs to you in your time of grief.
    Fly free Spitzer
     
  29. jt and trouble (GA)

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    Oh my God....Spitzer...Of course you did right by him. God I'm so sorry. :(

    Fly free sweet kitty. On the wings of angels, land ever so softly, till you meet again.

    jeanne
     
  30. Sheila & Beau GA & Jeddie GA

    Sheila & Beau GA & Jeddie GA Well-Known Member

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    (((BJ))) I am so sorry. Fly free Spitzer rb_icon

    What a sudden and tragic event. You did the very best for him and saved him from certain pain.

    (((hugs)))
     
  31. Ella & Rusty & Stu(GA)

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    Dear BJ,
    Spitzer, that brave kitty, will dwell peacefully in your heart until you meet again. Fly free, sweet Spitzer. At the Rainbow Bridge you will find many friends to welcome you.

    In deepest sympathy,

    Ella, Edward & Rusty, and Stu (GA)
     
  32. Miana & Misha

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    I'm very sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you must be going through right now.
     
  33. Jill and Remi

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    I am so very sorry for your loss. I can tell how special and tough Spitzer was and I know how much he will be missed.
     
  34. MelanieAndRacci

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    My deepest condolences BJM. What a terrible thing to happen to you and poor little Spitzer. You took such good care of him and did the only thing you could do for him in the end. I hope your suffering does not last too long and is replaced by the thoughts of the wonderful times you had with sweet Spitzer.

    Hugs,
    Melanie
     
  35. doombuggy

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    Sorry to hear this, BJM. We prayed for you at lunch today that you find peace and get some loving from your other cats. :YMHUG:
     
  36. Julie and Eleanor (GA)

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    I'm so deeply sorry. I know your heart is broken. May you find peace in the knowledge that Spitzer is now healthy and whole, and waiting for you.
     
  37. MommaOfMuse

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    (((((BJ)))))

    I am so very sorry that Spitzer had to leave you, there are no words to express the depth of sorrow we all feel st his loss. You both fought so hard, and I was truly hoping this last surgery would find the cause of all his health problems. You did right by your little man, you set him free from his pain and took it into your own heart.

    Fly free on angel wings Spitzer and give Muse a good head butt from me when she meets you at the bridge.

    Until you meet again visit your mom often in her dreams.

    Mel, Maxwell, Musette & The Fur Gang
     
  38. Peggy and Mickey (GA)

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    I am very sorry for your loss. Fly free Spitzer.
     
  39. drjsiems

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    I am so sorry about Spitzer and grieve with you.

    Judy & Jake
     
  40. Mystery

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    Most sincere sympathies to you BJM, and to all those who loved and will be missing him...until you meet again.
     
  41. Anne & Zener GA

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    We are so very deeply sorry for your loss. Sending heaps of love and light to Spitzer crossing the bridge. :YMHUG:
     
  42. Barbara

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    I'm so sorry about Spitzer. You gave him the best possible care. We never have enough time with them!

    Fly free Spitzer wings_cat
     
  43. Fritz's Mom

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    So sorry for your loss. Rest peacefully Spitzer.

    Thoughts and Prayers for you during this time.


    Jolene & Fritz
     
  44. Louieorangetabby

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    My deepest sympathy & sorrow for your loss of Spitzer~ I can just imagine what a tough time this has been for you~ saying goodbye is so sad~
    rb_icon may he find peace and joy in his spirit as he travels free without any more pain~
    Tracy & Louie
     
  45. Jean and Charcoal

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    Dear BJM,

    I am so very sorry for your loss of your handsome Spitzer. My heart sank when I saw his picture here in your post, as he looked just like my first cat, Squeegee, whom I lost 10 years ago.

    Sending many thoughts and prayers to you during such a sad time. rb_icon

    ((((HUGS)))),
    Jean and Charcoal (GA)
     
  46. julie & punkin (ga)

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    oh bj, i'm so very sorry. i know how much you loved spitzer - he was lucky to have you.
     
  47. mybuddybinks

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    Oh, BJ...
    Tears flowing for you...

    This is just downright heartbreaking. My heart goes out to you.

    All four of us lighting candles for sweet Spitzer...

    Celi, Binks, Smudge, and Annie

    [​IMG]
     
  48. Maresydotes

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    I am so, so sorry for your loss. ((((((hugs))))))
     
  49. Jill & Alex (GA)

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    BJ, I'm so sorry.
    May you soon find comfort in the joys you shared.

    wings_cat Fly free handsome Spitzer...
     
  50. Karen & Smokey(GA)

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    I am so sorry for your loss.

    May all your wonderful memories of Spitzer comfort you...

    ...'til you meet again.
     
  51. Dana & Thomas

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    Fly free Dear Spitzer.
    Dana
     
  52. Marje and Gracie

    Marje and Gracie Senior Member Moderator

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    Oh BJ.....I'm so very sorry to hear this.....what a fighter and legend Spitzer has been. You showed him the greatest love by letting him fly free. Our deepest condolences.
     
  53. allie and newkitty

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    I am so very sorry to read this. He was a beautiful boy, and blessed to have you for a caretaker.
     
  54. sharon and sparky

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    Fly Free Spitzer>>>>>>>>>>>>> wings_cat <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
     
  55. RuthV

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    You did the right thing inasmuch as his chances were not good. Sorry you went thru this, but I am so glad you were able to be with him right to the end. You gave him release. Very brave of you in the face of sadness.
     
  56. Marcy & Klinger (GA)

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    (((BJ))) I just saw that you added Spitzer's picture. He was such a beautiful boy and had a very sweet face. Thank you for sharing him with us. (((Hugs)))
     
  57. Rob & Harley (GA)

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    ((((BJ)))) I'm so sorry for your sudden loss. Spitzer was one lucky guy to know so much love and devotion.

    Fly free Spitzer. wings_cat
     
  58. colleenlindsay

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    I am so very sorry.
     
  59. dmartini4

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    Oh BJ
    I am sorry I am just reading this now...
    Fly free dear Spitzer
    you gave so much
    I am so deeply sorry for your loss

    Denise
     
  60. George&Bert

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    I am so sorry for your loss. We all share your grief and loss.

    He died having someone love him and that's very special.

    Sorry again. :(
     
  61. Barn Cats R Us

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    Oh BJ,

    I am so very sorry for your loss. I was checking up on you, and Spitzer, and didn't realize so much time had passed since I looked you guys up. I realize an entire month has come and gone, since your heart wrenching news, but I wanted to let you know how my heart aches for what you must be going through. Please know that you are in my thoughts.

    Spitzer couldn't have hoped for a better Mom. I know how his health conditions consumed your every thought, and I just wish you guys had caught some breaks. Spitzer is pain-free now, and I only wish I could help ease some of yours. I remember reading an old thread of yours, in regards to fur shots...that you wished your body would work again...or something to that effect. Well, my body isn't working with me anymore either, but I remember wishing you were my neighbor, so I could give Spitzer his insulin injections for you, since that part of me is still working for now.

    Anyway BJ, I don't know what else to say, other than, finding this thread was heartbreaking, and I am deeply, deeply, sorry for your loss. I wish I could help you, the way you helped me, Marilyn, and Clarky Poo, when we first arrived on the boards.

    Lighting Candles for Spitzer, and Sending You Hugs, from Deb & The Barn Cats

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  62. RuthV

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    So sorry to hear this. But, you did the right thing. His chances weren't good, so better to alleviate pain for him. I am sure you will miss him terribly, but in time good memories will ease your sense of loss.
     
  63. ohbell

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    Dear Spitzer & BJM, tears for you as I read this.
    I will always remember you two helping others.
    Spitzer, please say hi to my Civvie Gumpy and let her show you the best places at the Bridge.
    BJM, everyone has said their sorrow to you, but please know, I too feel your pain and send hugs and prayers for smiles in memories of Spitzer.
    Fly free boy! rb_icon
     
  64. Linda and Crash (GA)

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    What a sad night this must have been for you. So sorry. Sending (((hugs))).
     
  65. Heather & Seasaidh (GA)

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    Dear BJ,

    I am so sorry. You did everything you could for Spitzer. Many tears here as I type this. We will all miss Spitzer.
    ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((BJ)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
     
  66. Carol&Friends

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    I am so sorry for your loss.
    I am new here and unaware of the saga of Spitzer but I have been through this with many of my own and I share your hurt.
    Godspeed Little One and Big Warm Soft Hugz, BJ
    Hugz,
    Carol
     
  67. Doug N Libby

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    BJ -

    I don't know how I missed this. I wondered, but didn't want to ask. I am so sorry for your loss. I know you miss your sweet boy terribly - he was such a lucky fella to have someone who loved him and did everything possible for him.

    Praying for you -

    Libby
     
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