She LOVES the soft chews!
She also doesn't mind the soupy pates and we have a feliway plug-in in 2 rooms.
We also just set up a "senior" litterbox. It's quite large but lower entry point. She also took to it right away yesterday.
I'm going to give it 2 weeks to see if "home remedies" help before a Vet visit.
If you have any other suggestions I'm ALL EARS