JIll & Jade/// My civvie ,Dexter,crossed over today

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  1. Jill & Jade

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    My sweet sweet boy Dexter was seemingly fine just a few weeks ago. Just before Christmas I noticed his third eyelid was showing and he seemed a bit off. I took him to the vet and they found that his left kidney was enlarged and he was very constipated ( it took 2 enemas to clean him out). I knew he was constipated and had been giving him pumpkin in his food. Long story short, we think his issue was neurological. He declined quickly and this morning he looked at me and I knew he was ready. My heart is broken. I know everyone here understands. I just got home from the vet and I don't think Jade realizes he's gone. SO sad. IMG_2711.JPG
     
  2. Tricia Cinco(GA) & Harvey

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    {{{Jill}}}

    I'm so sorry to hear about your dear civvie, Dexter's, crossing. He was a very lucky kitty to have you for his mamabean. He knew that you loved him enough to give him everything he wanted and needed, including the ultimate gift - freedom. As you adjust to the new "normal" in your life, remember he will never be far away, as he will always be firmly in your heart. :bighug::bighug::bighug:

    Fly free, Dexter, and land softly. :rb_icon:
     
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  3. Jill & Jade

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    Thank You...: (
     
  4. Bellasmom

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    Oh Jill, I hate to hear this news, breaks my heart for u, u were an awesome bean and u gave him the ultimate gift of love, u will be in my prayers
     
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  5. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you...so sad.
     
  6. Hogan

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    I'm so sorry, it's always so devastating. :bighug:
     
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  7. JoyBee&Ravan

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    Very sorry to hear this Jill. :bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
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  8. Mandy & Rex

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    I'm sorry to hear of this. :(

    :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
  9. carfurby

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    I'm so sorry. Fly free sweet Dexter. Sending prayers. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
  10. Carol & Murphy

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    Jill, this is horrible. I am so sorry to read this sad news. From the pic you posted, he looks just like my soul kitty who I lost some years ago
    Poor Jade - she'll need lots of TLC (you both will) I think we are nearly neighbors - if you need anything, just pm me.
    Again, so sorry
     
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  11. Squeaky and KT (GA)

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    I'm so sorry it was Dexter's time to cross. Big huge looooong hug.

    Soar high on your new angel wings sweet boy - land softly back in your family's broken hearts.

    More hugs,
     
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  12. Tracey&Jones (GA)

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    I am sorry for your loss. Another angel for the skies.
     
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  13. Ella & Rusty & Stu(GA)

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    Dear Jill,
    Dexter is flying free on his new golden wings. We are very sorry that his time has come. You gave him a loving home and a wonderful life. He’s right there with you in your heart forever.

    Deepest sympathy
     
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  14. Sue and Luci

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    I'm so sorry to read this sad news...you're right Jill, we all understand...and we grieve with you. Every cat is precious...
    Sending you hugs and prayers for your civvie, Dexter. :bighug::bighug: May he fly safely and land gently on the other side. cat_wings>o
     
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  15. Bobbie And Bubba

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    Jill, I’m so sorry about your baby. Sending you lots of vines of peace and comfort. :bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
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  16. Olive & Paula

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    So sorry Dexter earned his wings. You and Jade take care of each other.

    :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
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  17. Kris & Teasel

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    I'm so sorry you had to let Dexter go. :(:bighug::bighug:cat_wings>o
     
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  18. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you. Crushed.
     
  19. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you :(
     
  20. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you. :(
     
  21. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you :(
     
  22. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you , Sue.
    Thank you so much...
     
  23. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you....and thinking of you and Jones.
     
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  24. Jill & Jade

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    So sad, as you know.
     
  25. Ana & Frosty (GA)

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    Aww, no! I am so sorry. He looks so much like my civvie Bella - same colors! Poor baby. So sorry for your loss. Hugs <3
     
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  26. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you, Ana. I know you know my pain. I think of you and Frosty. Happy he’s on the calendar. Hugs to you.
     
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  27. Jill & Jade

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    Thank you, Carol. He declined so quickly. My heart is broken. Xo
     
  28. Angie & Millhouse

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    I'm so sorry for your loss... what a great name Dexter had, I bet he was a very good boy.
     
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  29. Jill & Scooter

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    So sorry about Dexter!
    Lots of :bighug::bighug::bighug: for you and Jade!
     
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  30. Jill & Jade

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    He was the best.
     
  31. Shawna & Davidson (GA)

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    Sorry to hear about your loss, it’s never easy as many of us have experienced. Cherish your memories, they will never leave you.
     
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  32. Amanda and a Loudogg

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    Oh Jill, I am so sorry to hear Dexter is no longer with you. It is so hard regardless, but when it all happens so quickly, it can be an extra big shock to the system. My heart aches for the pain you are feeling right now. Sending you many hugs along with vines of comfort, love, and peace. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
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    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of your sweet and good boy Dexter. :rb_icon: I know how hard it is.
    Big :bighug: to you, and loving soft skritches to Jade :cat:.
     
  35. Jill & Jade

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    :bighug:
     
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  36. Shoeskitty-GA

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    So sorry about Dexter! :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
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  37. Rosie & Bailey

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    So sorry to hear about Dexter :bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
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  38. JoyBee&Ravan

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  39. Jill & Jade

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    :(:bighug:
     
  40. Jill & Jade

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    :bighug:
     
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  42. Carol & Murphy

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    How are you and Jade doing today, Jill?
    :bighug::bighug::bighug:
     
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  43. Susan&Felix

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    Very sorry for your loss of dear Dexter.:bighug::bighug:
     
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  44. Tasha Darwin & Ben

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    I'm so very sorry for your loss! It's so hard to say goodbye to our family members. Sending you comfort and peace. Rest easy sweet Dexter cat_wings>o
     
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  45. Idjit's mom

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    I'm so very sorry Jill, this is heartbreaking I know. Peace and comfort to your grieving heart. :bighug:cat_wings>o
     
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  46. Jill & Jade

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    Hi Carol,
    Jade seems to be realizing that he isn't here.Seems a little confused and a bit more clingy. Sweet girl. I'm just so sad.
    Thank you for checking in! xo
     
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  47. nslade001

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you with love, Nikki
     
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  48. Jill & Jade

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    thank you so much.... :bighug:
     
  49. Carol & Murphy

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    Hope every day gets a little easier. :bighug::bighug:
     
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