My Sweet Tida is gone

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  1. Lee and Tida (GA)

    Lee and Tida (GA) Member

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    It is with deep sadness that I have to announce that my beloved Tida passed away on Saturday, February 6th. She was 3 months shy of her 18th birthday. I had her since she was about 6 weeks old. She was my only cat, and my only child. She was a diet controlled diabetic, and had been OTJ since August.

    The past 2 weeks have been extremely difficult. She started losing her appetite, and throwing up foam. I tried changing her food with anything and everything off Janet and Binky’s list. I took her to vet on Monday, the 1st. She was only 6 pounds now. Her bloodwork showed very, very high BUN and creatinine levels. She was diagnosed with CRF, Fatty Liver Disease and an irregular heatbeat. She was given sub Q fluids, and an appetite stimulant. When her thyroid results came in on Tuesday, she was discovered to be HyperT also. I picked up her tapazole for that. I tried everything to get her to eat. She wouldn’t. She wouldn’t even take the pills with the pill pockets anymore. I had to wrestle with her to get them down her throat. Her little body was just shutting down.

    After many prayers and much thought, I made the very hard decision that we, as pet owners must make. I made the appointment with the vet for Saturday at 1:00. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. I said goodbye to my sweet baby, and just like that , she was gone. My boyfriend and I took her little body in the box the vet gave us to my brother’s house. They buried her on the hill right beside my brother’s cat that passed away a month ago. They have a beautiful flower garden and many birdhouses with lots of birdys flying by. She is at peace now.

    I want to thank everyone here for all the kindness shown me. Because of this board, I learned that diabetes was a manageable disease. I don’t post a lot, but I have been here every day since she was dx in July ’09. I hope what I have learned here, I will be able to pass onto other diabetic cat owners. Thanks again.

    Lee
     
  2. Ronnie & Luna

    Ronnie & Luna Well-Known Member

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    ((((Lee)))) I am so so sorry about TIda

    sending prayers that you find peace and comfort knowing she is in a good place, happy and being a kitty again.
    So sorry for your loss.
     
  3. ChloesMama

    ChloesMama Member

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    I am so, so sorry for your loss. *Squeeze* She was very lucky to have a mama as dedicated as you.
     
  4. Kathy

    Kathy Member

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    I am so sorry(((HUG)))
     
  5. evakot

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    Lee,

    Sounds like you have given Tida a wonderful 18 years. She was lucky to have you for a Mom.


    Eva
     
  6. Randi & Max (GA)

    Randi & Max (GA) Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss.
    18 years of love and devotion. How beautiful.
    She will always be with you.
     
  7. MicheleS

    MicheleS Member

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    {{{hugs}}}

    you are a great cat owner. she was lucky to have you.
     
  8. FurballLover

    FurballLover Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss.
    She had a wonderful life with you.
     
  9. Terri and Lucy

    Terri and Lucy Member

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    I'm very sorry for you loss. May she visit your dreams often with headbuts and purrs.
     
  10. Venita

    Venita Well-Known Member

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    (((((Lee))))) I am so very sorry for your loss. Fly free, sweet Tida. wings_cat
     
  11. LynnLee + Mousie

    LynnLee + Mousie Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss. (((Lee)))
     
  12. Karen & Smokey(GA)

    Karen & Smokey(GA) Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss.

    May all your wonderful memories of Tida comfort you...

    ...'til you meet again.
     
  13. ada and kitty

    ada and kitty New Member

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    I am so, so incredibly sorry for your loss.
    My heart breaks for you
     
  14. bartinmi

    bartinmi New Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss. 18 years is a testament the wonderful care you took of your friend.
     
  15. BobsMom

    BobsMom Member

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    I am so very sorry for your loss. wings_cat
     
  16. Terri & Tananda

    Terri & Tananda Member

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    Lee,

    You have my sympathies on the loss of your beloved friend.
     
  17. Dana & Thomas

    Dana & Thomas Member

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    I am very sorry for your loss; Fly Free Sweet Tida.
    Dana
     
  18. Nina and KB

    Nina and KB Well-Known Member

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    ((( Lee )))

    I'm so sorry for your loss, it seems so sudden. Fly free, sweet Tida.
     
  19. Michelle and Mannie (GA)

    Michelle and Mannie (GA) Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry to read of your loss. so very sorry.

    Fly free sweet Tida rb_icon
     

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  20. Tina and Regis (GA)

    Tina and Regis (GA) Member

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    I am so sorry. Fly Free Tida.

    Sending hugs of comfort,

    Tina, Regis in spirit, and Persia
     
  21. maryjoandsmokie

    maryjoandsmokie Member

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    I am so sorry about Tida.
    I know you loved her and took good care of her for so very long. You were a good mom to her.
     
  22. Mary & Stormy Blue

    Mary & Stormy Blue Member

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    I am so very sorry for your loss.
    Please know that you will be in my thoughts and my prayers,

    {{{{{{{{{{{hugz}}}}}}}}}}}}

    ~M
     
  23. M L and Cleo (GA)

    M L and Cleo (GA) Member

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    Tida knows how much you loved her.

    Sending many prayers for comfort and peace.
     
  24. Lucy and Oscar(GA)

    Lucy and Oscar(GA) Member

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    (((((Lee)))))))


    So very sorry for your loss of your sweet Tida.

    Until you meet again. . .

    Fly free, Sweet Tida(GA)
     
  25. OLM Catnip Cottage

    OLM Catnip Cottage Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry, Linda. May God bring you comfort.
     
  26. Lee and Tida (GA)

    Lee and Tida (GA) Member

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    Thank you everyone for all the kind words. This is so hard. I am a mess. I miss her so much.

    She was ready to go. She didn't put up a fight at all.

    God Bless my sweet little girl.
     
  27. jt and trouble (GA)

    jt and trouble (GA) Well-Known Member

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    I wrote a message but must have forgot to hit submit. 18 years is a long time to love someone and have to say goodbye. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    wings_cat rb_icon wings_cat

    God will take care of her till you meet again...

    Jeanne
     
  28. cjleo

    cjleo Member

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    So sorry for your loss. Hope you can recall memories from each of those 18 years. Fly free, Tida.

    Claudia
     
  29. Nancy and Cody

    Nancy and Cody Well-Known Member

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    She's purring in the lap of her Creator, thinking about what a great mamabean you've been. God gave us dominion, and you did it right.... -be proud. I bet she visits you in your dreams.
     
  30. JGinMA Lindy (GA)

    JGinMA Lindy (GA) New Member

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    I'm so sorry the loss of your dear Tida. My thoughts and hugs to you.

    Janice
     
  31. Emmy & Dude

    Emmy & Dude Well-Known Member

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    Lee, I am so sorry to see that you had to say goodbye to your sweet Tida. But, oh, 18 years of love - how fortunate you both were to have had that and how fortunate she was to have your loving care for so long and then the gift of release that you gave to her when there was no other choice. It's definitely the most difficult gift to give and while she is free of pain and young again, you are the one who suffers the grief and missing her.

    My heart goes out to you - I'm sure however that in remembering the wonderful memories and love you shared, a smile will once again come to your lips.

    Sending many comforting prayers to you.

    Emmy & Dude (& Mittsi too)
     
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