ThisIsAllForZot
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Hello all,
I am new here, and as you'd imagine, I have a diabetic feline. He was diagnosed very recently and I was directed here by a kind stranger on reddit (hello, and thank you, if you see this!) who said that this was a great resource and community for finding assistance with dealing with diabetes and ways to make it more financially reasonable. I am looking to become as educated as possible with feline diabetes, as all of it is still very overwhelming and scary for me. I do have some minor experience with the happenings and daily life of diabetics from a previous caregiving job, but I am not sure how well that will translate to diabetic pet care.
Meet Zot
Zot is my 13yro, sweet Norwegian Forest/Maine Coone mix. He was given to me as a kitten by a friend back in 2011. He loves all people but is not so fond of other animals that do not respect his personal space (gets along best with introverted female personalities). His favorite hobbies are staring at the ceiling, licking plastic, sitting in your doorframe at 2 am so you trip, and screaming unnaturally long screams at you when you enter the room. You know, all the usual orange-cat hobbies. He is the biggest cuddle bug and loves smacking you in the face to wake you up for pets, and he is incredibly loved for all of these things and more.
His Diagnosis
Last October, Zot had gone in for grooming to get some mats out that he would not let me touch. He had to be sedated for this as the mats were in an area he would not let me groom, and they were very close to the skin. Before this, they did some bloodwork as a precaution, and his glucose reading was pretty high. I believe over 500mg/dL. I was told that he was likely diabetic, but there was a small chance that it could have been a freak stress-related incident. They told me they usually only see stress-spikes cause 200-300mg/dL at most, however. And that it probably wasn't stress. I was concerned about this, but I was also told that if he was diabetic, I would see the clinical symptoms at home with urination and water consumption. Which I did not (I DEFINITELY do now.)
About a week and a half ago, Zot developed an abscess on his right cheek. He had to be sedated so that they could find the source of the abscess. I also requested another glucose reading, which they did while he was there. Results came back, and he was over 300mg/dL, and the vet told me he was diabetic.
This has all been incredibly confusing and exhausting for me, and I assume has been and still is sometimes for many, many others. This couldn't have come at a worse time, as I lost two jobs due to chronic pain and had to move back home and am in financial ruin. I cannot afford his dental surgery, and while we try to put everything back together, he has been on painkillers and had an antibiotic injection. Today, he goes back in for hopefully a set week or two of antibiotics and some more painkillers so that he and I are allowed more time to pick up the pieces before the abscess returns. The vet says ideally, we'd start his diabetes treatment a week after his surgery as currently that issue is the biggest immediate danger to him.
Educate me, please
I have looked at a lot of the information here, but all this new information is very overwhelming to take in all at once. I guess I am posting this because I am terrified that due to my financial situation and my horrible struggle to find work, I could not afford to give him a good quality of life with diabetes, even if I am able to raise and find the money for his dental surgery. I am at a loss as to what to do. All the programs and resources I could think of, resources people have sent me, etc, are all too full or busy to help, and price estimates are so high for everything at every place I've called. Even our Humane Society can't help with the dental as they lost their lead and won't have one for a month or two. I'm scared that, even if I make the money for his surgery, I won't be able to commit financially to his diabetes.
Worst of all, I saw it coming. Because I am living at home currently, and of course, my pets are with me- my grandmother free feeds them dry food, and she gives them an ungodly amount of treats. I mean, seriously-- she goes through three bags of treats a month, and some days I have caught her giving about 30 between our 3 cats several times a day. I couldn't stop her. I begged her. I even brought her to vet appointments to help her understand. The vet told her that if she kept up what she was doing, our cats were going to have serious medical issues or end up diabetic. She didn't listen, she told me in private that the vet was "young and stupid" because she believes pets and people can only be born with diabetes. I was horrified at the thought of having a diabetic pet, not because I couldn't bring myself to commit to his care (I'd do anything for my pets), but because I fear that diabetes is a death sentence for a pet in an extremely low-income household. I don't have a door on the room I'm staying in and I could not keep her from feeding them as she does. Now she talks about how miserable diabetic people and animals are... which is ironic considering she is a huge factor in his diagnosis. Of course, she wants me to put him down while the vet thinks he has a fighting chance if I can find help with this.
I am typing all of this out because, is this doable? Is there anything I can do to prevent this situation from turning more sour? Is it cruel of me to try, despite being completely broke? It wouldn't be a problem if I didn't lose my job, but now it is all very scary, and I want to make the right decision for Zot. I have raised over 660 on gofundme alone for his dental surgery, and been sent 800 from friends and that went to previous appointments, but I so fear not being able to afford his insulin, future vet appointments and all of the necessities. I am trying so hard. I want his quality of life to stay good. He is still happy, his behaviors are entirely the same, he is eating and drinking normally (for being diabetic). I've even switched him onto a wet-food diet already. I need advice and opinions badly from others with diabetic pets.
All help and opinions are greatly appreciated.
I am new here, and as you'd imagine, I have a diabetic feline. He was diagnosed very recently and I was directed here by a kind stranger on reddit (hello, and thank you, if you see this!) who said that this was a great resource and community for finding assistance with dealing with diabetes and ways to make it more financially reasonable. I am looking to become as educated as possible with feline diabetes, as all of it is still very overwhelming and scary for me. I do have some minor experience with the happenings and daily life of diabetics from a previous caregiving job, but I am not sure how well that will translate to diabetic pet care.
Meet Zot
Zot is my 13yro, sweet Norwegian Forest/Maine Coone mix. He was given to me as a kitten by a friend back in 2011. He loves all people but is not so fond of other animals that do not respect his personal space (gets along best with introverted female personalities). His favorite hobbies are staring at the ceiling, licking plastic, sitting in your doorframe at 2 am so you trip, and screaming unnaturally long screams at you when you enter the room. You know, all the usual orange-cat hobbies. He is the biggest cuddle bug and loves smacking you in the face to wake you up for pets, and he is incredibly loved for all of these things and more.
His Diagnosis
Last October, Zot had gone in for grooming to get some mats out that he would not let me touch. He had to be sedated for this as the mats were in an area he would not let me groom, and they were very close to the skin. Before this, they did some bloodwork as a precaution, and his glucose reading was pretty high. I believe over 500mg/dL. I was told that he was likely diabetic, but there was a small chance that it could have been a freak stress-related incident. They told me they usually only see stress-spikes cause 200-300mg/dL at most, however. And that it probably wasn't stress. I was concerned about this, but I was also told that if he was diabetic, I would see the clinical symptoms at home with urination and water consumption. Which I did not (I DEFINITELY do now.)
About a week and a half ago, Zot developed an abscess on his right cheek. He had to be sedated so that they could find the source of the abscess. I also requested another glucose reading, which they did while he was there. Results came back, and he was over 300mg/dL, and the vet told me he was diabetic.
This has all been incredibly confusing and exhausting for me, and I assume has been and still is sometimes for many, many others. This couldn't have come at a worse time, as I lost two jobs due to chronic pain and had to move back home and am in financial ruin. I cannot afford his dental surgery, and while we try to put everything back together, he has been on painkillers and had an antibiotic injection. Today, he goes back in for hopefully a set week or two of antibiotics and some more painkillers so that he and I are allowed more time to pick up the pieces before the abscess returns. The vet says ideally, we'd start his diabetes treatment a week after his surgery as currently that issue is the biggest immediate danger to him.
Educate me, please
I have looked at a lot of the information here, but all this new information is very overwhelming to take in all at once. I guess I am posting this because I am terrified that due to my financial situation and my horrible struggle to find work, I could not afford to give him a good quality of life with diabetes, even if I am able to raise and find the money for his dental surgery. I am at a loss as to what to do. All the programs and resources I could think of, resources people have sent me, etc, are all too full or busy to help, and price estimates are so high for everything at every place I've called. Even our Humane Society can't help with the dental as they lost their lead and won't have one for a month or two. I'm scared that, even if I make the money for his surgery, I won't be able to commit financially to his diabetes.
Worst of all, I saw it coming. Because I am living at home currently, and of course, my pets are with me- my grandmother free feeds them dry food, and she gives them an ungodly amount of treats. I mean, seriously-- she goes through three bags of treats a month, and some days I have caught her giving about 30 between our 3 cats several times a day. I couldn't stop her. I begged her. I even brought her to vet appointments to help her understand. The vet told her that if she kept up what she was doing, our cats were going to have serious medical issues or end up diabetic. She didn't listen, she told me in private that the vet was "young and stupid" because she believes pets and people can only be born with diabetes. I was horrified at the thought of having a diabetic pet, not because I couldn't bring myself to commit to his care (I'd do anything for my pets), but because I fear that diabetes is a death sentence for a pet in an extremely low-income household. I don't have a door on the room I'm staying in and I could not keep her from feeding them as she does. Now she talks about how miserable diabetic people and animals are... which is ironic considering she is a huge factor in his diagnosis. Of course, she wants me to put him down while the vet thinks he has a fighting chance if I can find help with this.
I am typing all of this out because, is this doable? Is there anything I can do to prevent this situation from turning more sour? Is it cruel of me to try, despite being completely broke? It wouldn't be a problem if I didn't lose my job, but now it is all very scary, and I want to make the right decision for Zot. I have raised over 660 on gofundme alone for his dental surgery, and been sent 800 from friends and that went to previous appointments, but I so fear not being able to afford his insulin, future vet appointments and all of the necessities. I am trying so hard. I want his quality of life to stay good. He is still happy, his behaviors are entirely the same, he is eating and drinking normally (for being diabetic). I've even switched him onto a wet-food diet already. I need advice and opinions badly from others with diabetic pets.
All help and opinions are greatly appreciated.